Recently, the internet was agog with the news of Toke Makinwa’s husband, Maje Ayida with the news of not only impregnating his ex-girlfriend, Anita Solomon but also the fact that the said Anita had gone abroad to deliver the baby.
When ENCOMIUM Weekly called
Mrs. Toke Makinwa-Ayida on Monday, June 22, 2015, this was what she said:
Toke: Hello
ENCOMIUM Weekly: Good morning….
Toke: Okay, what can I do for
you?
ENCOMIUM Weekly: Am I speaking
with Mrs. Toke Makinwa-Ayida?
Toke: Yes, you are. What can I
do for you?
ENCOMIUM Weekly: You probably
know why I am calling you. It is about the story of your (she didn’t allow us
to finish the statement).
Toke: (cuts in) I don’t have
any comment, I don’t have any comment.
Mrs. Toke Makinwa-Ayida has
probably gotten over the shock and trauma the news of her husband’s rumoured
infidelity must have caused her, because when we called her the previous week
(on Monday, June 15, 2015), she didn’t wait for us to ask any question. The
moment she heard from ENCOMIUM Weekly, she switched off.
Toke’s comment on her Vlog on
youtube on Thursday, June 18 indicates that she has come to live with the
reality of her situation in her marital life.
In her words on the Vlog she
said, “This has been a very, very, very crazy week. The purpose is not really
about me. I am not one who enjoys talking about myself…I just want to talk
about other issues.”
Her topic for the day was also
suspicious. It was about those going through crises in their relationships.
She went on to advise women to
stop taking blames for the misdemeanour of their spouses or boyfriends. She
also admonished people generally for being judgmental and blaming women for the
atrocities committed by their husbands or boyfriends.
She cited the ease of a woman
that wrote her that she was blamed that her husband impregnated her cousin.
“How dare you blame her?”
“Was she the one that put his
thing into her private part?” She also admonished women to stop living in self
denial.
According to her, “A lot of
people need to stop living in denial. The first thing you need to do is to
accept the situation.
“It is not about you, stop
blaming yourself.”
She went on to advice women in
relationships to take the situation in their strides and move on.
In her words, “The sun will
definitely shine again because it will always do. For every whao, there is a
bigger whao. For every fish, there is a bigger fish. For every scandal, there
is a bigger scandal.”
She finally stretched her hand
to all women in relationship crisis as a hand of fellowship-meaning we are in
it together.
One thing that was conspicuous
on the Vlog is the missing marriage picture of Toke Makinwa and Maje Ayida.
Toke Makinwa and Maje Ayida get
married in January 2014 after their off and on relationship that spans 12
years.
Anita Solomon, the woman that
is alleged to be pregnant for Maje Ayida, is also said to have been in
relationship with him for eight years.
In fact, someone wrote this on
the blogs on internet, “Toke can lie for Africa. Before I write my own, let me
say Maje Ayida is a woman wrapper from time!!! Whether Toke stays at home or is
a career woman, he was going to cheat no matter what!!! But Toke, was Anita a
stalker? Was Erica a stalker?
“Were you not the side chick
when he was formally dating those ladies? Who chased them away from Maje so
there would be space for you? Was it not you and your Bacchus friends? Sending
them anonymous emails, text messages and phone calls?
“Harassing them in clubs,
spilling drinks on them, all sorts of childish things to let them know you were
in side chick then? Na lie?
“Maje was dating Anita, you
(Toke) was seeing him on the side in those days of Bacchus, same with Erica
Coswoth. Did you really think after you managed to chase them that you will
have peace in that marriage?
“He cheated on them with you.
So, of course, he will cheat on you too.
“Karma is a bitch. Anyway, as
for Maje, yes, we all know you didn’t really want to marry Toke. I mean, even
up a few days to your wedding, you were asking your friends if you should marry
her…(smh)! But nobody forced you to go to the registration office without your
family’s consent. So as you make your bed you must lie on it and make it work
out with Toke.
“Anita, I wish you safe
delivery because your baby is innocent in all of this. I know Toke made your
life a living hell while you and Maje were dating.
“Maje, go and settle with your
wife. Make it up with her. Toke, it is well after all you got what you wanted
nah – Mrs. Ayida.
“But sarcasm aside, keep your
head up. This will soon be stake gist. But you Toke Makinwa knew, he will
always love Anita. So, if you are wise cut your lesses now.”
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